It’s safe to say a lot of us are loners

Is the world just too big

?Jump to Last Post 1 5 of 5 discussions (34 posts)I get frequent invitations from ppl at work to go out, (albeit mostly from 20 year olds, b/c I work at a grocery store.) But I don’t really want to. I have on occasion, but it’s always just to be nice. I did get invited to an 18 year old’s high school bday party. I turned him down. lolSo it’s not like I don’t have the opportunity to go out, I just prefer home. I prefer my kids and the consistency of this environment. And when I shared these things, most of the ppl who posted, agreed. You canada goose outlet canada all said you felt the same way, for the most part.I don’t even have friends and family on my FB home page. It’s all organizations etc. It’s safe to say a lot of us are loners. but here’s the thing. we let each other in nearly every day. We purposefully turn our computers on, sign in to HPs, and go straight to the forums. We actively seek each other out. Does anyone else find that a little bizarre? That so many of us loners go looking for the same canada goose jacket outlet uk group of ppl to associate with, every day?Just like it would be within any society we lived in, there are a few we don’t get along well with and we try to have a positive attitude even when we might not understand them. Then there are those we love, or at least really look forward to hearing from. and then those we hope tolerate us. But we goose outlet canada do that here and not so much out there.So is it the ppl? Are there specific ppl that you just can’t live without? Or are ppl interchangeable in a way? (With all due respect to each individual.) Or is it the conglomeration of minds? Does this group draw you b/c, as a whole, they are unique? Or is it the atmosphere that HPs fosters?You could be anywhere in the world now, even anywhere on the internet. Why is this the environment you’ve chosen to fill SO canada goose outlet many of your days and nights?janesixposted 4 years agoin reply to thisFor me, personally, it is simply that I am a human being, and thus crave, on occasion, human interaction. We are social creatures.Online, I can turn it off when I feel like it, without any social repercussions. No one will be annoyed or feel ignored if I don’t show up.If I’m not in the mood, or don’t like someone, there is always the OFF button.In real life, there isn’t.It’s a means of social interaction without the responsibility of maintaining canada goose outlet store toronto a friendship. Or enemyship:)amiebutchkoposted 4 years agoin reply to thisYou know Beth, I have wondered the same thing. At first I started with canada goose factory outlet vancouver hubpages just to get cooking with writing and then I got “introduced” to all these people. I actually think about people on hubpages! I think, “They must be so nice,” and I even wonder about them. They make me laugh, they share emotion and feelings. all their differences and individualities. Perhaps it is this personal sharing and the fact that here, you can really be who you are. All the other preconceived notions people in the real world have about you they are gone here. You can actually say just what you think here. That may be what has drawn me in? Or maybe it is the fact that we owe eachother nothing. It is just pure choice that we interact; no obligation. I like that.Beth37posted 4 years agoin reply to thisThat’s hilarious. I have canada goose jacket outlet sale been in knock down drag outs with ppl (so to speak) and when I go to work, I forget it all, for the most part, but in my car, on the way home. they enter my thoughts and Im like. “Oh are you still here?” Yeah, it’s really interesting how this forum of ghosts, is actually a room full of real ppl. We are a part of each other’s lives, though we come and go at the drop of a hat. If someone is going to write a book, they should write one on forums. Ill canada goose outlet paypal give them a lot of good stories.Motown2Chitownposted 4 years agoin reply to thisYou know, I found HP totally by accident. I love writing and it was a platform that gave me a lot of freedom. I have a tendency to attach quickly to people whose company I enjoy, and I ran into tons of fascinating people here. Many of them became dear friends that canada goose clothing uk I’ve yet to meet in person. Others are dear friends that I’m in contact with every day and have become some of the closest and best friends I’ve ever had.I am by nature a very sociable person, but I have some major anxiety issues that make getting out among a lot of people (especially ones I don’t know) really difficult for me. Even interacting with extended family for any length of time can overload me occasionally. I’m JUST like you, Beth, in that I also just really love my home. My space, my family the very peaceful, warm, and welcoming environment that we work to maintain. And my husband and daughter are my two favorite people in the world, so being with them just makes me happy.HP specifically because I find so many people with similar interests who like to spend time discussing things that fascinate me. Also, because I have encountered people who are SO similar to me and yet SO different at the same time.Today, I found myself actually shedding years for a former hubber who’s passed away. Stumbled canada goose outlet seattle across something he’d said in a forum and felt a painful twinge of longing that he could still be with us.All just words on a screen maybe, but as much of a window into our souls sometimes as our eyes can be.

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